For a peaceful well being, a peaceful mind is must!! We are taught since childhood that we should discard what is awful and bad for us. As we grow up we forget this simple thing when it comes to our personal well being, we forget that forgiving is actually favorable to us and by practicing this we do not let our self-respect down but actually we become more mature and are controller of our mind that what it should store and what it should discard.
It is not that when we forgive then we actually submit our self to the one who was mistaken but actually we free our mind and heart of the wrong that happened whether it was done by self or any other person.
Our mind rejects what is improper to store i.e. jealousy, hatred, arrogance, irritation and while forgiving we are actually rejecting these futile emotions.
Let me make it more clear, when the one who hurts you intentionally or unintentionally he/she is actually emitting negative energies and emotions which are disturbing you as well as the one who is doing it. The person who is actually the doer is not able to realize the outcomes but may be because you are the sufferer, you are able to realize it more clearly, here at this point when you Forgive not only the doer but also yourself that you faced such situation you actually free you mind of the Odds that were going to hinder your path. You free the doer of his/her shortcomings and make place for a healthier atmosphere around you.
The key to forgiving is -- Smile and Silence at the same time!!!! You actually become more Respected when you shun off the criticism by smiling silently at the situation and forgiving!!!
So Folks!!! Raise your Spirits Higher!!!!! :)
Good one Divya...
ReplyDeleteWill definitely try to follow this!!!!
Monita
But tell me 1 thing.....
ReplyDeletey forgiving everyime we are just encouraging their misdeeds... in this way we wont b able to improve that person...
Shilpee
@ Monita- I need such morale boost ups so that I continue writing!!!
ReplyDelete@ Shilpee- Our Mission is not to improve someone but ourselves first, this is actually a justified and polite IGNORANCE to the person you dislike. Otherwise ignorance is shown in very contrast form. :)
ReplyDeleteoh thats grt!!!!
ReplyDeletewe will start following it from today itself!!!!
Grt going DIBIYA.... :-)
awasome thought.. one shud practice.
ReplyDeleteabove post is by Pratibha C.
ReplyDeleteSimply superb dear
ReplyDeleteKeep writting such stuffs :-)
Priyanka
It was really nice yar....i also agree with you....Keep writting....
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